make changes in his life

"If we do this, my husband cannot find out."

"What do you mean?"

"I told Jason our date was platonic."

"Wait a minute! Your hubby thinks that his Wife dating a Black Man is without any form of intimacy."

"No, not at all! But he's told me if I cuckold him, he'll know that he has to .......

...... make changes in his life."

"Well let's make sure he knows. As often as possible."